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Breaking Bad

I once read that God removes people from your life because He heard conversations that you didn’t hear. It’s funny how the truth always has a way of eventually coming to light, even if it’s several years later. I’m speaking of betrayal and the toll that it can take on you over time. It’s like […]

Little known fact- I’ve always been fascinated with anything pertaining to the science of space- the last frontier. The older I get, the more I realize that science, philosophy, and spiritually are inextricably tied. In fact, ALL things are bound together in some way, shape, or form. The mysteries that are out there can also […]

Event Horizon

Faith Over Fear

I’ve never really been an overly fearful person in life. Not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing? The only thing I ever feared was leaving this Earth before my children got to a certain age and when I was younger- losing my parents before I became of age- that’s it! Well… […]

A Change Is Gonna Come

As I sit back and reflect upon everything going on in America, I can’t seem to shake this feeling of deep sadness for the conditions that people of African descent are experiencing here in the states and around the world. As a mother it pains me that my children are coming of age in a […]

There comes a time when you can’t run and hide and you’re going to have to stand up and fight. We constantly hear messages from the sages speaking of passivity and letting everything go. Unfortunately, that doesn’t always work in the real world and in real time. Often times people take advantage of the “nice […]

Survival of the Fittest

Confessions of a Real Housewife

Where do I begin? If Kevin Hart hadn’t already wrote a book called I Can’t Make This Up, I definitely would! Or even better, Issa Rae’s web series, The Mis-Adventures of an Awkward Black Girl, would be a hilarious comparison to parts of my life- minus the single and awkward part. The fact of the […]

Great Expectations

For years she kept her head down and played her position as center on the team. She was careful to not aspire to any other role, as the center was just as important as the point guard. After all, the center position made her the center in her families world. Year after year the team […]

As this momentous year comes to an end, I’m beginning to reflect more and more on the effects it has had on me and the ones I love. That coupled with the holidays being here is a lot to unpack. The holidays can bring a sense of dread instead of joy and cheer. Does everyone […]

2020- A Year in Retrospect

Honor Among Thieves

I don’t know how or why I fell in love with gangster movies? I can remember being in middle school and curling up and getting cozy on the black leather tufted couch in the family room and watching one after the other on a Saturday night. Some of my favorites are: The Untouchables, The Godfather, […]

Whats Love Got To Do With It?

Do people marry for love or is it because it’s a societal norm after a certain age? Or to take it one step further, do they marry because they want to have children and/or is it more for mutual support rather than love? As we evolve in society and our roles as women and men- […]